Shae's Wild Hair

Shae thought Thrall needed a new "Do".

I have no idea what she's got planned or going to have hidden so you'll just have to come see it when she gets done.

...as you know she's always full of surprises. :)

Just not a good day

Today has been a rough day.... and I'm one that doesn't really like drama but I made my best friend mad at me today. It was honestly unintentional but I guess I did a good job at it.

So why am I blogging about it? I dunno, I guess I just felt the need.

The way things are done

Well I've never been one to keep quiet and sometimes I do get into blabbermouth mode but anyway, I'm normally one to ask a question as I see fit but I'm also never really sure who to ask.

Now I created this blog for my own knowledge and feedback into the eyes of Angie. She's got a good head on her shoulders but does sometimes seem to be tender hearted.... as I'm told.

But now I just have one more question before I retire for the night that I have often pondered in this BIG world of bondage irl and also SL.... how do you handle rights? I have a few scenarios I'm wondering about and anyone is welcome to chime in and help me at any time. I guess I'm asking you more or less because these are things that "I" need to know.

I know that a slave/submissive's rights are first and foremost important and respected. Yep, I know what a safeword is and I know how to use it... but here are a couple of things?

1. Your Mistress is on vacation and gives you full roam of access until she comes back. Do you honestly take her at her word or be loyal to her until she returns?

2. Your Mistress allows you to play with O/others and therefore you do. Your Mistress suddenly arrives and should the person in control of the slave/submissive relinquish control at this time to your Owner or ask if she can continue? Or should she just keep going as she wishes in front of your Mistress until she feels she is done?

3. You are partnered (in SL) and your partner allowes you to play with O/others also. Your partner suddenly arrives and should the person in control be courteous just as she would if this person was your Mistress or keep going as she pleases?

Is this something that is just determined relationship by relationship or is there a standard?

I tell ya, I need to write a book!

Chocolate and/or Vanilla

Of course I'm not talking about ice cream or any type of desserts and Shae and I laugh all the time about Chocolate and Vanilla. In today's society it seems a little too "taboo" to talk about bondage much in public and stuff that goes on behind closed doors. Of course we live in the "bible belt" too so things are hush-hush around these parts. This past Halloween I was shopping in Walmart and passed a teen couple and there were some handcuffs in the costume section and I hear the guy say... (yes, with me in ear range,) "Yes! Get those and I'll handcuff your ass to the bed!" Of course I didn't dare turn around to see if he or she picked up a pair as much as my curiosity wanted to. I kind of got a little chuckle and went about my business and picked up a pair of my own. Heheh, just kidding.

Anyway, what I'm asking is of course everyone's flavor is different and will probably lead me to more and future discussions... partly why I created this blog also.... but how many people actually like the full blown out "Chocolate"? I mean constant and 100% of the time without any romance? And then are there those that like Vanilla with "sprinkles" where you may have a handcuff here or there? A blindfold here and there? And a gag or even a wooden paddle? Now I may be new to this but where do you actually draw the line? Is there some line that says, Yes! Congrats you are a full Dom/Domme and/or sub! after you pass over a line of handcuffs and ties?

Maybe I'm the one that needs a little bit of education. ;)

Rain and Inspiration

Well I am having a wet and rainy Saturday, totally not what I was expecting but I also didn't check the weather either. 'doh Today was going to be a day filled with chores, grocery shopping, some cooking, then pizza and friends/family over for dinner. It's possible it can still happy just hope all goes as planned.

I have once again lost my niche' for clothing. I can't think of anything to make and my mind is blank. Of course I have suggestions all the time but I feel I'm not good enough to please people with what they want so I kinda tend to not do suggestions. Ask Shae... she was after me for months for the Wonder Woman outfit and I was so afraid to let her down that it wouldn't come out right. I guess I'm my own worst critic. *shrug*

On a good note, I have been asked to make some custom poses and if I'm successful then this can possibly be a HUGE money maker. I was contacted for help by Aki and I hope to get these done for her ASAP.

Have an amazing Saturday!

Welcome.....

Well I have a blog that's basically for advertising and my old avatar had one that she could write her thoughts on but it's old and out dated and long gone. What I put here, who knows - I guess it will be random thoughts, stuff related to SL, and even some rl stuff occasionally.

On my mind right now is that I'm torn with my Mayfield sim that I have put some much work into and Shae too. Many sleepless hours of shopping, building, and hunting for items but it's not kicking off. Is this karma for how I did Pen? I thought it would be a great idea and maybe it's my fault since I've not actually had an event. I'm still pondering on keep going or pack it up and make me my own little fantasy house/land.

I'm also feeling sorry for Shae. I have given her many sleepless nights worrying about me and taking care of me. Who could ask for a better person in their life?! She means a lot to me and I'm so grateful to have her in my life.... I even made her a Wonder Woman (tm) outfit last night as a token of thanks. If you see her, you'll have to get her to show it to you.